She dumped me saying she's not over me cheating
January 05, 2018
We've been dating 3 years. I cheated a year ago. Thought we were past it. She dumped me a few days ago saying she's not over it. Finally stopped being irrational and crazy emotional today but i'm just pissed that she would throw away the bond we had over one bad choice. I'm 25 and I thought maybe we would get married (and i know she wanted that too). I'm giving her space but idk how much space is too much. I keep thinking she'll come back but then I also feel like it's really over and I'm just so angry at myself and her. I know she still loves me but i thought our bond meant more than a mistake I made a year ago. She's ended things for now but she still has us as a couple on Facebook. She hid her relationship status but hasn't deleted it or me so I feel like that's a sign of something. I just know if she comes back I really would do everything the right way because this experience has opened my eyes to how heartless I've been and all the things I need to improve on in my life.
Thanks for sharing. I don't know of many couples that survive infidelity, if I'm honest, I think it's unlikely that yours will.
You need to reach your tipping point so you can decide that staying in contact with her is not worth the pain anymore. Block her on every channel you can think of and go full no contact as you start putting the focus on yourself.
She's not throwing your bond away based on 1 mistake, she's also considering the possibility it may happen again. Forgiving is one thing, trusting again is another.