Fast forward through recovery, ease your pain in days instead of months.

A complete guide to help you get over your ex-girlfriend:
  • Get your ex out of your head. Whether your breakup is still fresh, or not, we will cover techniques to get rid of obsessive thoughts and lingering feelings even if you are convinced you've lost the love of your life.
  • Fast-forward through the pain. Learn what has helped hundreds of other guys ease their pain even if you're still in love with your ex.
  • The closure she won't give you. Straight-foward explanations of your ex's behaviors, drawn from the fields of psychology, evolution and neuroscience combined with insights from 5+ years of breakup coaching.

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In the Book, Discover How To...


Fast-forward through your recovery by following my step-by-step instructions on how to manage your emotions, what NOT to do to avoid more pain and how to feel happy and confident again.


By understanding our emotions and bringing our awareness to them we can loosen their grip over us. In the book I explain where our emotions come from and how we can dissolve them through techniques such mindfulness.


Incessant, obsessive thoughts prevent us from clearing our heads and moving on. In the book I cover the most effective ways to stop and delete obsessive thoughts forever.


A negative outlook of the future can keep us sad and depressed. I show you how you can become happy and confident again and how you can set yourself up for success in love.

Jesse Martin

About Me: Jesse Martin

I've been writing about breakups, and how guys can recover from them, for over 5 years. I've received hundreds of emails from guys around the world telling me my words have helped them. I've also successfully coached dozens of guys 1-on-1 over Skype after their breakup.

​I'm not a psychologist nor a licensed breakup coach (which isn't even a thing). I'm just a guy that went through this himself and decided to create the book he wish he had.

What People Are Saying

Brendon, Miami, FL

I just completed your book and it is excellent and has great value to people grieving divorce, break up and even the loss to death of a loved one. ‎This is a gift and you have added to the world!

Gio,New York

It's so hard to find a good guide to a heartbreak that's meant to be read by men. There are a lot of other books that empower women after a break up-- but none for men. I related so much to your book.

Each page made me bawl because I had finally found someone that felt the same way I was feeling and understood not just me, but the entire situation.

Thank you so much for putting together a book to help men get over somebody.​

Brian,Indianapolis, IN

You truly are a saint to the breakup community and I implore you, as well as salute you, for the balls you have shown as well in your own life lessons. Keep doing your thing and continue to fight for us men who have been beaten down by the sword of fuckery.

Bryan,New York

I downloaded your book, which I thought was excellent!

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The no-BS guide to getting over your breakup

Created for men specifically this book covers the ins and outs of recovering from a breakup.